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Redefining smart, within ourselves and our children

Redefining smart, within ourselves and our children

“How does it feel to be born smart?”

My friend caught me off guard with this question the first time I showed her the Grip Baby onesie. “Smart” had never been something I labeled myself as before. 

As I pondered her question, a flood of memories surfaced. Is it because I was kicked out of math class in second grade and forced to sit outside because my questions were too distracting? Is it because I was a “C” student up until college, no matter how hard I tried? Or maybe it stemmed from my first "real" job, where a "smart meter" (my boss) system evaluated employees, and I scored a meager 5 out of 10.

These experiences, along with countless others, revealed numerous instances where my intelligence wasn't just questioned, but actively discouraged. Even though my parents understood that “smart” can be defined in many different ways , that didn't stop poison venom from the outside world from seeping into my unformed, malleable brain. 

Growing up as a millennial, we often received the message that "smart" meant only one thing: academic excellence. The kids who enjoyed theater were deemed "weird" (creative!), the athletes were dismissed as "dumb" (athletic!), and anyone who didn't have a clearly defined "thing" felt lost and unsure of their own value.

College was a turning point for me. In contrast to the rigid, one-dimensional environment of grade school, college provided the space I needed to thrive. I discovered my talent for big-picture thinking and questioning established notions. I started raising my hand in class without fear, applying for internships and successfully getting them. Finally, I felt comfortable embracing my own intelligence.

Entering the workforce allowed me to further define and utilize my strengths. I honed my interpersonal skills, learning to retain my core personality as I connected with various individuals, from clients to executives. "Coming off as smart" almost became a strategic game, and I mastered it.

Fast forward to today. My husband and I are raising two children according to a different set of values.We are dedicated to fostering a new generation that celebrates the diverse spectrum of intelligence. While I’m not a psychologist, I understand the crucial role of early confidence building. 

If your child doesn't fit the "mold" or your preconceived notion of "smart," I encourage you to embrace their individuality. Remember, every little mover possesses unique magic within them, waiting to be discovered. And when given the space for that magic to come to life, they’ll be happier, healthier and better equipped to be part of this crazy world.

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